tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-82462041289464052432011-08-01T13:59:08.519-04:00Wendybirdnoreply@blogger.comBlogger11100tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8246204128946405243.post-63070109957581647232010-08-26T14:22:00.000-04:002010-08-26T14:22:31.265-04:00You can say I am a liar all you want. But you &amp; I both know the truth. My father was abusive to both my mother and I. My mother spent a lot of my childhood drunk or on drugs.<br />When her boyfriend/fiancee came on to me and touched me in way no grown man should touch his girlfriends teenage daughter she picked him over me. I could go on and on...<br /><br /><br />We were not the Cleavers or the Bradys. We were dysfunctional in major ways.<br /><br />Yes I made bad choices. Yes I did things that were wrong. I know this. But none of it makes what was done to me ok, but instead was caused by the things done.<br /><br />Now that I am an adult and out of the way of the toxicness of my past I can see my choices in some things were bad and I am sorry for them but at the time I could do no different.<br /><br />Saying awful things about my on my facebook, or on my blog posts, calling me names, saying I am a liar, will not change the fact that I am not a liar and these things happened. You can not make me feel guilty, I have nothing to feel guilty about. You can not hurt or abuse me anymore.<br /><br />Be an adult and go away and leave me alone. I am not trying to hurt you by talking about MY LIFE and of you feel I am then that is your issue not mine...work it out yourself!!!!<div class="blogger-post-footer"><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/8246204128946405243-6307010995758164723?l=wenslittlespace.blogspot.com' alt='' /></div>Wendybirdnoreply@blogger.com0